2) Why sometimes our blessings seem to be a disaster for us?
Times came that blessings turn to disaster. It was some what complicated for how could it be called as a blessing if that would make us pessimistic? Simple as happiness sometimes came with a melancholy.
Just like a blessing for us, yet a disaster for others. Though you are certain to get your 100% happiness from your blessings, there are chances that those people around you were not blissful or couldn’t accept the fact which makes them feel sad.
One example is when you’re getting married. That would be a fully blessing for lovers, however, that would be a disaster for parents or even for the couple, for it would be a hard sacrifice when they already need to separate from their parents after so many years that they’ve taken care of them.
Another is when your parent or your love ones need to work abroad. The thing that they got an opportunity to work and the chance to earn greater income is a blessing, but for their sons, love ones, or even for them would take it as a disaster. That was the feeling I had after my parents work abroad. Even if I would look at its positive sides, I can’t still deny that missing them and longing for their caress were vast disasters to sacrifice.
Even though there are times wherein you couldn’t perfectly be happy, we shouldn’t let this trial to become a hindrance. What we have to focus is to thank for those blessings we earn. GOD entrust us plans to make us happy and would never let us to feel hurt. We just need to believe and trust.
Times came that blessings turn to disaster. It was some what complicated for how could it be called as a blessing if that would make us pessimistic? Simple as happiness sometimes came with a melancholy.
Just like a blessing for us, yet a disaster for others. Though you are certain to get your 100% happiness from your blessings, there are chances that those people around you were not blissful or couldn’t accept the fact which makes them feel sad.
One example is when you’re getting married. That would be a fully blessing for lovers, however, that would be a disaster for parents or even for the couple, for it would be a hard sacrifice when they already need to separate from their parents after so many years that they’ve taken care of them.
Another is when your parent or your love ones need to work abroad. The thing that they got an opportunity to work and the chance to earn greater income is a blessing, but for their sons, love ones, or even for them would take it as a disaster. That was the feeling I had after my parents work abroad. Even if I would look at its positive sides, I can’t still deny that missing them and longing for their caress were vast disasters to sacrifice.
Even though there are times wherein you couldn’t perfectly be happy, we shouldn’t let this trial to become a hindrance. What we have to focus is to thank for those blessings we earn. GOD entrust us plans to make us happy and would never let us to feel hurt. We just need to believe and trust.
